• how do I feel about the relationship?
• have I told this person what happened to me? Is he or she supportive of my healing?
• how do I feel when we talk or spend time together?
• do I take more drugs, drink more alcohol, or eat too much or too little when I'm around this person?
• does this person criticize me, insult me, or hurt my feelings?
• how do I feel after a visit? Depressed? angry? Like I'm crazy? Nurtured and supported? Relaxed? Basically okay but not great?
• what kind of relationship would I like to have with this person?
• what would have to happen for this relationship to improve?
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