Father's Day 2014

We all have a father somewhere out there! Some have a father, some have a mother playing both roles, and some have a dad! I for one has a dad and mother that did both, sadly my dad is just that! He wasn't my idea of a father, he wasn't my idea of much! Dad to me is a man that has kids, sees his kids at allotted time, and sends money monthly! That describes my dad too T. But it took me until I was a little older to realize that because at an early age I thought he was the perfect father! But later I realized he wasn't anything but a perfect father to me and my brother! He saw us when it was his time and then dropped us off and then it was back to his other life being the perfect father to his step kids who where more his kids than his own kids ever was! Even as I've gotten older, married but didn't have kids he's still just a dad! He didn't teach me to drive, he didn't teach me to fish, swim, or anything! He took me dove hunting just so I could go grab the doves! He didn't buy me my first car, he didn't give me my first bike! As you see he's a dad! A father in my idea is one that's teaching their daughters to be strong like a man but have the woman side too! Teaching her to hunt, fish, swim, and all the things that fathers do! He takes her on her first date to teach her how a date should be, he's there when she brings over the boy she wants to date! Only thing my dad did was gave me away at my wedding but he didn't really want too! Father means my mom to me! She was there for all my boo boos all my sickness, all my ups and downs, all my life she took the role! She played it well! So every Father's Day I always call my dad and say happy dad's day and then I call my mom and tell her happy Father's Day! I'm not trying to down my dad but he's not a father to me! A father doesn't do things to their daughter that my father did and that's in an earlier post! When I married I wanted to make Corey a father because I knew he would be the greatest father that his father was! God didn't bless us with kids but you know it's ok because he knew that we was still just kids! So to all real Fathers out there happy Father's Day! And to all mothers that's done it all happy Father's Day too you too!! Peace!